I amm wondering whether any one has read the article connecting losing virgnity at a later age to sexual dysfunction and lack of interpersonal skills. I am 23 and will be turning 24 next year . According to the article I am in the catergory of people who will experience less sexual satisfaction in a relationship, sexual dysfunction and lack of interpersonal skills ….am i doomed?
First, one study does not doom anyone. It often takes several similar studies supporting each other to even be close to showing something like this to be true. Second, it said that there is an increased incidence of these issues in people who lose it later. I personally question if this is in fact the effect of not losing it earlier, or shows up in the result since it is part of the cause. Nature selects agains the shy,and for the foolhardy daredevils. It's just the way it goes. There may be some real issues with the later in life sexual dysfunction. But as the others say, if you prime the pump….also, I think it said clearly that the sexual dysfunction aspect was almost entirely on the male end…
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Nah. It's actually more detrimental to have sex too early. You should be fine, especially if you do manual stimulation.
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no you are not doomed, you have not been ready to take hat step or havent had someone special to share it with… your time will come… and you will do fne
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you are not doomed at all … you have made a very good decision and you should stick by it!… congrats not many people at your age can say that still have their virginity I commend you on it… and you are NOT doomed just waiting for the right one and not risking your life to STD's
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Please dont take advice from the bias alphabet channels like ABC etc, if you really want to feel guilty for not being a promiscuous then go for it, but it may just be you havnt met the right bloke yet, you need to take advice from your friends and family not abc etc, they will be able to point out why you are maybe not having the relasionships you'd like.
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First, one study does not doom anyone. It often takes several similar studies supporting each other to even be close to showing something like this to be true. Second, it said that there is an increased incidence of these issues in people who lose it later. I personally question if this is in fact the effect of not losing it earlier, or shows up in the result since it is part of the cause. Nature selects agains the shy,and for the foolhardy daredevils. It's just the way it goes. There may be some real issues with the later in life sexual dysfunction. But as the others say, if you prime the pump….also, I think it said clearly that the sexual dysfunction aspect was almost entirely on the male end…
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Girl don't believe everything you read. Remember how all the computers were going to crash is 2000, the world was supposed to loose power and rioting would errupt. The older I get the more sceptical I become. When the time comes you will be just fine.
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I read that article. The key is correlation, not causation. The article itself said that the study did not prove causation. For example, people in the study who lost their virginity later likely already had a lack of interpersonal skills or sexual dysfunction. Someone who lacks interpersonal skills is probably less likely to have as many opportunities to have sex. Someone who has some kind of sexual dysfunction may avoid situations where sex might happen. These things may lead a person to lose their virginity later, not the other way around. So as long as you don't currently lack interpersonal skills or have a sexual dysfunction, you probably have nothing to worry about. And even if you do, remember that this study was probably not performed on a large enough sample of people to generalize across the entire population.
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No, you are not doomed! Forget about stupid articles. This world is too sex-crazed already! If you are still a virgin at your age then that is a good thing! Keep it up! And don't let society pressure you into doing it anyway. Save your virginity for when you find the right man. : )
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