Comment posted Don’t Let your Kids Develop Separation Anxiety by karl z.
DANG…typical of a phil child. . . . . cand take the child out of the Philippines but you can’t take pedophile out of the philippine men….. tell you uncle in the western world there are things like child laws
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- Your uncle should be in prison.He took advantage of an innocent child,you have a very sad story to tell and your uncle has had control over you from a child,your a man now and dont let him take anymore control,get the control back and tell someone,maybe you have a friend you could tell or someone you feel comfortable with,he has created this secrecy and it will destroy the rest of your life if you dont do something about it,its already destroying you now.Lhope his childrend have been safe from him.good luck
References : - Admit it to them if you feel guilty, they need to know that you are gay, i don’t know from personal experience but i do have a lesbian friend that wanted to tell her parents but didn’t know how because she was afraid they would disown her, if you are honest with them and tell them the truth they shouldn’t hate you.
References : - Wow … believe it or not, as an adult, your uncle knew better and he manipulated your young mind into doing things. Your uncle should be ashamed for what he has done to you. What if your lover was doing that to his nephew? What would you think about that? Stop it before something even worse happens to you or anyone else.
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References : - wow that’s deep.you should just come out and tell your family.you will feel sooo much better just letting it all out and not having that in the back of your head all the time. honesty is the best policy.
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- how to improve interpersonal communication skills? any good books about it?
Couple of interesting books are:The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking
http://www.booksvariety.com/the-quick-and-easy-way-to-effective-speaking
How to Win Friends & Influence People
http://www.booksvariety.com/how-to-win-friends-influence-people
Socialnomics: How social media transforms the way we live and do business
http://www.booksvariety.com/socialnomics-how-social-media-transforms-the-way-we-live-and-do-business
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
http://www.booksvariety.com/how-to-talk-to-anyone-92-little-tricks-for-big-success-in-relationships
All the best
References : - how to improve interpersonal communication skills? any good books about it?
Why don’t the other one think of something to say ? Maybe there is really nothing to say so it is not your problem and the other one understands it too . If there is any talk it will come naturally without you worrying about what to say .
References : - how to improve interpersonal communication skills? any good books about it?
family differences works
References : - How do men and women differ in how they deal with conflict?
As a woman I have found most men deal with conflict (meaning disagreement) by avoiding or passive aggressive tactics (IE: not picking up, forgetting to stop at the store, watching tv when chores need done). Most women want to talk it out to the nth degree. It is important to me as a woman that I feel that the man cares for me and my emotional needs. My conflict is usually about resolving the issue and feeling good about it. For a man (ie: my husband) he was to resolve the issue so we can just stop talking about it. He tends to solve it and perhaps resent the decision because it wasn’t a good solution, just a quick one.
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thats kind of a broad question. i am a 35 year old male… conflict w/ same sex or opposite? verbal or physical?
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i had a relationship with my uncle when i was a boy, i keep it a secret to my parents do i have to tell them?
i just want to open my story here, i don’t want to tell my parents and my sisters about this. im 22 yrs. old now and im working as a nurse. im a half filipino, half italian. my mom is a filipina and my dad is italian. since i was a kid my parents always travel to the philippines. im their 1st and only son, im 8 yrs. old that time. while my parents are busy for their business in the phil. they have a hard time taking care about me. so they let my uncle take care and manage the things i needed in school etc. my uncle is a married man and has a 7 mons. old baby and his very close to my family. while my parents are away i develop separation anxiety for the 1st 3 mons. i always cry but im happy that my uncle and his wife are very loving and caring about me they treated me as their own child. my uncle works during night time and his wife works day time, so my uncle is the one who really take care of me, he send me to school and buy the things that i want. i still remember that i feel more closer to him than my dad. he always hug me and tell jokes about how cute and a good kid i was. we even sleep together and sometimes if i did something wrong i tell him the truth and say sorry and hug him. that time i develop love and attraction to him. i know since i was a kid i always smile and feel close to the person i liked. one day while my uncle is taking a shower he called me and he said "pls. take my bath towel in my room and give it to me" so i did and its the 1st time i seen him naked. i just stand in front of him and looked curious and smile at him. he looked at me in the eye and said "you okay?" then he grab me and he sat down in his bed and asked me if i could give him oral. i feel nervous that time but also happy and excited to do it for him. that time i did it to make him happy and we develop a secret relationship. sometimes i feel bad about it but thats the only way i could make him happy. he always said to me "dont tell anybody about this if you love your uncle". we had a great relationship for at least 5 yrs. until my parents came back here in U.S. and stayed with me for a while. my uncle and i still love each other until he and his wife moved to italy. i still love him till now and i already went to italy for vacation many times to visit him and his family and start dating other men there in italy. also last year i went to phil. with my mom and my younger sisters and i tried to date guys i met there and they are cool. my family always asked me why i dont have a girlfriend and sometimes they suspect im gay but actually thats the truth. i just can’t open it to them for who i am right now. im very secretive to my family and act just a normal straight guy to them. only my friends and guys i date they know about me. my experience in life i dont regret anything im just happy for it and looked back the time and laugh about it my self. i feel like a whore for all the things i experienced about men LOL. im sure if those things didn’t happened to me probably im a straight guy right now. thanks for reading my story………..xxsam
One answer … wow
If this is real, this is SICK
If not, too LONG a STORY!!!
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If it makes you feel better telling them, then definitely do so.
If you think it won’t haunt you, or someone it will get out through your uncle. then I guess don’t bother really you might just bring unwanted complications in the family.
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Your uncle is a pig
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wow that’s deep.you should just come out and tell your family.you will feel sooo much better just letting it all out and not having that in the back of your head all the time. honesty is the best policy.
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omg…..
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Wow … believe it or not, as an adult, your uncle knew better and he manipulated your young mind into doing things. Your uncle should be ashamed for what he has done to you. What if your lover was doing that to his nephew? What would you think about that? Stop it before something even worse happens to you or anyone else.
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Admit it to them if you feel guilty, they need to know that you are gay, i don’t know from personal experience but i do have a lesbian friend that wanted to tell her parents but didn’t know how because she was afraid they would disown her, if you are honest with them and tell them the truth they shouldn’t hate you.
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Your uncle should be in prison.He took advantage of an innocent child,you have a very sad story to tell and your uncle has had control over you from a child,your a man now and dont let him take anymore control,get the control back and tell someone,maybe you have a friend you could tell or someone you feel comfortable with,he has created this secrecy and it will destroy the rest of your life if you dont do something about it,its already destroying you now.Lhope his childrend have been safe from him.good luck
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DANG…typical of a phil child. . . . . cand take the child out of the Philippines but you can’t take pedophile out of the philippine men….. tell you uncle in the western world there are things like child laws
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