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What to do when you find out your son is stilling money from inside ur home?
I find £80 under my son who is 13. I dont know what to do to correct him…:s Punishment will solve the problem? How to make him understand this is horrible? That family should have trust?? Pls help!
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- Make sure your son is aware that you know that he has stolen money from you.
Make sure you are aware of every penny you have within the home and you know where it is at all times.
Be sure to keep a very close eye on your son. Right now, at age 13, he wants privacy but he doesn’t deserve it if you can’t trust him. To a 13 yr. old, a bedroom door means A LOT but that bedroom door can come off the hinges until trust is earned back, if that’s the next step that needs to be taken.
Talk to him. Don’t expect him to know what you’re feeling just as he can’t expect you to know what he’s feeling. You need to have communication. Make sure it’s civil and not yelling. Give yourself time to calm down over the situation before you decide to talk to him.~_~
References : - Who did the money come from?
He needs to repay the money. Not just return it but earn the same amount and repay to whom ever it was stolen. Is this the first time? Do not trust him, he must re earn that. Money, etc must be locked away.
perhaps a talk with a police officer or a visit to the police station to see just what happens to thief’s would wake him up.
References : - I think you KNOW the answer already . Would you put up with it , for a stranger?? So why now ?
References : - How do you know where he got the money that could be money he earned.
References : - Tell him that you know that he is stealing. He most likely will deny it. Just sit him down and explain exactly what it is doing and you are losing an important trust. Then tell him that under no circumstances will stealing be allowed in your home or anywhere else. Tell him that you will advise his teachers if it continues and if necessary, you will call the police. This may just get through his head because he is still young. Good luck.
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References : - how to improve interpersonal communication skills? any good books about it?
Why don’t the other one think of something to say ? Maybe there is really nothing to say so it is not your problem and the other one understands it too . If there is any talk it will come naturally without you worrying about what to say .
References : - how to improve interpersonal communication skills? any good books about it?
family differences works
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References : - How do men and women differ in how they deal with conflict?
thats kind of a broad question. i am a 35 year old male… conflict w/ same sex or opposite? verbal or physical?
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What to do when you find out your son is stilling money from inside ur home?
I find £80 under my son who is 13. I dont know what to do to correct him…:s Punishment will solve the problem? How to make him understand this is horrible? That family should have trust?? Pls help!
Let him know you know
Let him know he has violated your trust
Account for every penny and don’t give him the opportunity to dissapoint you again
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I stole money either and I’m fine. Just hide them somewhere else. And learn to write – it’s "steal", "still" means something else.
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Tell him that you know that he is stealing. He most likely will deny it. Just sit him down and explain exactly what it is doing and you are losing an important trust. Then tell him that under no circumstances will stealing be allowed in your home or anywhere else. Tell him that you will advise his teachers if it continues and if necessary, you will call the police. This may just get through his head because he is still young. Good luck.
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How do you know where he got the money that could be money he earned.
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I think you KNOW the answer already . Would you put up with it , for a stranger?? So why now ?
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Who did the money come from?
He needs to repay the money. Not just return it but earn the same amount and repay to whom ever it was stolen. Is this the first time? Do not trust him, he must re earn that. Money, etc must be locked away.
perhaps a talk with a police officer or a visit to the police station to see just what happens to thief’s would wake him up.
References :
Make sure your son is aware that you know that he has stolen money from you.
Make sure you are aware of every penny you have within the home and you know where it is at all times.
Be sure to keep a very close eye on your son. Right now, at age 13, he wants privacy but he doesn’t deserve it if you can’t trust him. To a 13 yr. old, a bedroom door means A LOT but that bedroom door can come off the hinges until trust is earned back, if that’s the next step that needs to be taken.
Talk to him. Don’t expect him to know what you’re feeling just as he can’t expect you to know what he’s feeling. You need to have communication. Make sure it’s civil and not yelling. Give yourself time to calm down over the situation before you decide to talk to him.
~_~
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